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I'm nervous. How do I approach someone wearing the pin?
I'm nervous. How do I approach someone wearing the pin?
Just say hello. You already know one thing: they’re open to meeting someone. Start with something natural about where you are.
What should I say?
What should I say?
Keep it simple. “Hi, I noticed your pin. Are you a hiker too?” That’s it.
What if they're not interested?
What if they're not interested?
That’s okay. You tried. This is about real-world connection, and not every conversation turns into something. Move on.
What does the pin mean?
What does the pin mean?
It means the person wearing it is single and open to meeting someone for a real relationship. This is not for hookups. This person wants to .... hold your hand.
Why not just use dating apps?
Why not just use dating apps?
Because it's hard to embelish and exaggerate in person. What you see is what you get.
Why does someone even need a pin?
Why does someone even need a pin?
It is really hard to tell if someone is single. Many men don't wear wedding rings. And people who are in a committed relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) don't wear any rings. This way you know that the person you've been eyeing at the gym is single, available, and interested in a relationship. This makes it 'safe' to approach them.
I'm married. But I'd like to have a girlfriend on the side.
I'm married. But I'd like to have a girlfriend on the side.
This is NOT for you. Hold Your Hand is for people who are actually (legally, mentally, authentically) single and available.
What if I'm rejected?
What if I'm rejected?
Then you go back to your hike, workout, coffee, or book - which you already liked doing anyway.
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